I’m spending my first week here in Lesotho trying to soak in as much as I possible. I’ve never traveled to Africa before, so these experiences are new to me. Living here for a week is already making me realize the things I took advantage of before I got here—for example: insulated houses and heaters! Holy Moly is it cold here!! My office and house are usually colder than it is outside—how is that possible? It’s been beautiful during the day—sunny clear skies, but at night and in the morning it becomes almost unbearable. I have learned how to adapt wearing snowboarding socks, long underwear, sweats, a long sleeve shirt, a sweatshirt, and mittens to bed; and sleeping in my sleeping bag under the covers. I STILL get cold! The first couple nights I secretly pouted to myself, until I discovered how lucky I was when I met a group of boys yesterday…
Kick4Life not only uses the curriculum Grassroot Soccer created, but also creates projects in order to adapt to the needs of the city, Maseru, and Lesotho as a country. Yesterday, I shadowed the councilors who work with children living on the streets. These group of boys come every Thursday to talk about issues they are facing, and hopefully gain the tools and life skills necessary to either get them off the streets, or return home. I was amazed. These boys looked like they had just come back from a production of Oliver Twist. They were covered from head to foot in dirt, and smelled like they hadn’t showered in weeks. Most were not wearing shoes, and there was one who could not have been older than 12 with an oversized man’s blazer on—he stands vividly in my mind. And, I’m complaining about the cold?
Because they were speaking Sesotho, I was sitting in among the group unable to understand a word that they were talking about. I would continually ask one of the councilors to translate for me because sometimes the boys would burst out into laughter. I was confused because the consequences of smoking and sniffing glue were the topic of conversation. She told me that the boy with the scar on his cheek is a bite mark from a girl whom he attempted to rape because she would not buy glue for him. She adds, “he is very naughty”. Naughty? Naughty!?
That same boy was the only one out of the group who spoke English, and was eager to talk to me and get to know more about me. While talking, I found out he’s 17 (I didn’t believe him) he looks about 13. The councilor then told me that because these boys are so malnourished, they stop growing. We started to kick the soccer ball around, barefooted because most of the boys don’t have shoes, and some only have on tattered socks that are struggling to stay on their feet. Once they realized that I could play soccer, the boy with the over sized blazer ran to me and clung to my arm and held my hand wanting to be on my team. My heart overrode the thoughts of how dirty he must have been because I didn’t budge, and in that moment I realized, “who am I to judge these boys living on the streets? How do I know that they even have a home to return to, and if they do, I do I know that these boys will be loved and cared for?”
Like I said before, this is a whole other world. They deal with problems that I have no idea how to fathom. How can I logically judge them when I don’t have the mental capacity to understand how they are living, and why?
TTFN:
Peace, Love, and Understanding